"I want to write a book, but where do I start?" 

I often receive this question from aspiring authors who have an idea for their nonfiction book but struggle to put words on the page. Usually, they want to write about their lives or a topic they're passionate about, but they don't know how to begin. I remember asking myself the same question before writing my first book, Beauty in the Valley of Rejection. Thinking back on it now, translating my thoughts and ideas into written words made me feel extremely overwhelmed.

What should I write about first? 

How do I organize my thoughts?

The journey to a captivating story takes time and figuring out where to start can be daunting. If you're ready to begin your journey to become a published author, I am here to help. Below, I give you a peek into my personal process as well as highlight eight easy steps to help you do less staring at the blank document on your computer screen and more typing.

Step One: Remove Your Fear and Self-doubt.

Will anyone want to read my book? Are my ideas foolish? What if I make a mistake? Am I good enough?

These thoughts and more, plagued my mind before I was able to finally sit down and write my first book about finding the good in challenging circumstances. I had a severe case of ‘imposter-syndrome’ that hindered me from moving forward and writing what was in my heart. After I realized that my story was unique and that someone needed to hear it, I decided to let go of the fear I had cooped up inside my head and start writing.

The first-time authors I educate, often express the same concerns. I have found many of their worries to be rooted in with the fear of failing. When the fear of failing arises, I remind them of George Clooney's quote, "The only way to fail is not to try." Whether you're writing a self-help book, a cookbook, or a business book, if it's in your heart to write it, it's probably because someone out there needs to read it. Sharing your experiences can be frightening, but in the end, it's well worth it.

Step Two: Figure Out The Purpose for Your Book and Your "Why?"

Knowing why you want to write a book is essential. What do you want the reader to know? When they close the book or finish a chapter, how do you want them to feel? What message do you want them to take with them? Are you writing to inform, inspire, entertain, teach or help? Get a clear concept on the purpose of your book before you sit down to write. All succeeding steps in the writing process will point back to the book's purpose and your reason for writing it.

Step Three: Define Your Target Audience.

Defining your target audience is one of my favorite parts of the writing process, because it allows you to use your imagination.

Whom do you see reading your book? How do they look? Where do they work? What is their ethnicity? Are they single or married? Are they rich? Do they have children? What are their pain points? What challenges do they face? What are they thinking? How are they feeling?

I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

It's easy to think of a group of people when you hear the word "audience." However, when you write, it's always for an "audience" of one. My editor taught me this valuable lesson, and I keep it at the forefront of my mind whenever I write.

Give the audience you wish to write for a name. If you're artistic, just draw them. You could also print a stock image of someone that represents the audience you imagine. Keep the image in front of you when you write. If it helps, put the printed or illustrated photo in a frame next to your computer, as it will represent whom you're addressing in your book.

When I was writing my book, I printed a picture of the person I believed represented my audience, and I kept that picture in front of me throughout the writing process. Defining your audience will motivate you to keep moving forward. As you write, remember whom you're writing for.

Step Four: Figure Out The Theme of Your Book.

According to Litcharts.com, the definition of the word "theme" in literature is, “A universal idea, lesson, or message explored throughout a work of literature. One key characteristic of literary themes is their universality: themes are ideas that not only apply to the specific characters and events of a book or play but also express broader truths about the human experience that readers can apply to their own lives.”

In other words, the theme of your book is the book's central idea or message. It's the overall ‘big picture’.

You might be wondering, “How do I figure out my book's theme?” Here a few ways to uncover the theme of your book:

• If you're a person who keeps a notebook, or a journal, you can look through your notes to recall some experiences or topics you'd like to discuss. See if you can identify a common theme.
• Carve out some quiet time to recall experiences or points you'd like to discuss in the book, and search for a common theme.
• Brainstorm or write the topics and ideas at the forefront of your mind. Once you have a general idea, search for the common theme amongst them.
• Write down all the questions you'd like to answer in the book. Do you see a common theme in the answers you'll provide?

Get clear on the universal and central idea of your book. Every chapter you write should support and point back to your theme.

Step five: Create An Outline.

After you figure out the "big" idea, create a road map of supporting statements. These ideas should link back to your theme or central idea of your book. Again, you can revisit notes, journals, and life experiences to help you develop supporting topics. If you don't keep a notebook or journal, carve out time to sit down and brainstorm the messages you want to discuss in your book.

When I outlined my first book, I drew the main ideas from personal life lessons that stood out to me. The messages in those lessons are what I wanted my reader to remember. If you're not writing a book about your life and are instead, writing about a business topic or something you're passionate about, get a clear idea on the main points you want to discuss. These points or supporting ideas, often end up becoming chapter titles and the focal point of your chapters. Your first outline doesn't have to be perfect, but it will give you some direction in where to start writing.

Step Six: Schedule Time to Write and Commit to That Schedule.

When I set out to write my first book, I worked a full-time job in New York. Due to the long commute, I arrived home extremely late in the evenings. By the time I got settled at home, I was just too tired to write. It wasn't realistic for me to be productive in the evenings, and I had to be honest with myself about that. So, I decided to commit to writing on the weekends.

When scheduling time to write, you want to be honest with yourself about how much time you can commit to writing each week. Make sure your goals are manageable. I am now a mom of two amazing little girls, and they currently occupy my evenings instead of my New York City subway. I have had to experiment with different times of the day to figure out the best time for me to write. I've found that writing after everyone goes to bed, or early in the morning before they awake, works best for my life. You too, may have to experiment with different times of the day to figure out what will work best for you. Once you find your sweet spot, stick to the schedule and commit.

Step Seven: Find an Accountability Partner.

Sticking to your goals can be challenging. Let's face it, life is full of surprises, and unexpected situations often arise. Simply put, sometimes, the day doesn't go as planned.

Having an accountability partner will help keep you stay motivated and help you stay on track. My husband is and has always been, my accountability partner. He is by no means a writer, but he believes in me and is supportive of my goals. If he knows it's time for me to write and sees that I am getting caught up or distracted with the kids, he reminds me to stop what I am doing and write.

As a writing coach, I know how important it is to have an accountability partner. I will often reach out to those I am coaching and ask, "Did you write today?" or, "Have you started writing?" Gentle reminders can be the fuel that propels you forward. Figure out who'd be the best accountability partner for you. It may be another writer, a spouse, or a friend.

Step Eight: Write, Write, Write, and Write Some More.

It's finally time to sit down and write. Before you start tapping away on the keyboard, recall the supporting ideas from your draft outline. These ideas are the focal points and the subjects of your chapters. Look through the outline and choose what you want to write about first. You may choose to start from the beginning of your outline or decide to write about a subject at the forefront of your mind.

When you write, think of each chapter as a short essay or blog article to help you stay focused. Keep your book's purpose in mind as you write and keep the image of the person you are writing for before you. Add relatable stories, examples, and experiences where you can help drive your point. Use words like "you" and "you're" when addressing your reader; this will make them feel as if you're speaking directly to them and will help them connect with your story.

When you write, be sure not to get caught up in editing or writing perfectly. Instead, just go with the flow. Write what is in your heart and what comes to your mind. You can always go back to edit and perfect your writing later. Stick to your goals, and you'll have a completed manuscript in no time. You can and will tackle your book, one word, one sentence, and one chapter at a time.